{"id":1356,"date":"2025-09-21T13:11:16","date_gmt":"2025-09-21T10:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/?p=1356"},"modified":"2025-09-21T13:11:16","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T10:11:16","slug":"biz-neyi-normallestirdik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/?p=1356","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130Z NEY\u0130 NORMALLE\u015eT\u0130RD\u0130K?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hatay\u2019da TikTok skandal\u0131: \u00c7ocuk Art\u0131k \u0130\u00e7erik mi?<\/h2>\n

Hatay\u2019da bir baba. Hen\u00fcz re\u015fit olmayan bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu. TikTok\u2019ta a\u00e7\u0131lan canl\u0131 yay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z oynuyor. Baba izleyicilerle etkile\u015fime giriyor. Sonra ele\u015ftiriler geliyor. Baba bu kez k\u00fcf\u00fcrle cevap veriyor. Ve en kritik c\u00fcmleyi kuruyor: \u201cNormal bu<\/b>.\u201d<\/p>\n

Normalin \u00c7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f\u00fc<\/h3>\n

\u0130\u015fte meselemiz burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu \u201cnormal\u201d sadece bir adam\u0131n c\u00fcreti de\u011fil. Bir kitlenin toplumun de\u011ferlerinden kopu\u015funun, norm erozyonunun ifadesi.<\/p>\n

A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 fakirlik de a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 zenginlik de ayn\u0131 sonucu do\u011furuyor. Toplumun ahlak terazisini bozuyor. Yoksulluk i\u00e7inde s\u0131k\u0131\u015fan aile kolay para umuduyla \u00e7ocu\u011funu sahneye s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. \u015eatafat\u0131n sarho\u015flu\u011funa kap\u0131lan zengin de kendi s\u0131n\u0131r tan\u0131mazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 diye dayat\u0131yor. \u0130ki u\u00e7 da bizleri ortak normlardan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor. Ortada kalan geni\u015f kitle ise b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 izliyor.<\/p>\n

\u015eOVLA\u015eTIRILAN REZALET<\/h3>\n

Televizyonlardaki g\u00fcnd\u00fcz ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 programlar\u0131. Magazin ku\u015faklar\u0131. Sosyal medyan\u0131n bitmeyen videolar\u0131. Hepsi bu u\u00e7lar\u0131n sergiledi\u011fi \u00e7arp\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 orta s\u0131n\u0131fa birer e\u011flencelik ya da ibretlik malzeme gibi sunuyor.<\/p>\n

Seyirlik hale getirilen yoksulluk. \u015eovla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan rezalet. Normalle\u015ftirilen s\u0131n\u0131r ihlali.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar ya g\u00fclerek ya da \u00f6fkeyle bak\u0131yor. Ama bak\u0131yor. Ve her izlenme bu d\u00fczeni besliyor.<\/p>\n

Bu nedenle sadece sahnedekilere odaklanmayal\u0131m. Sahneyi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131lan kitle de var. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir i\u00e7erik, ancak al\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 varsa ya\u015far. Baba k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 oynat\u0131yor ama binlerce ki\u015fi de o yay\u0131na ba\u011flan\u0131yor. Kimileri merakla kimileri tepki i\u00e7in kimileri gizli bir hazla. Algoritma niyeti de\u011fil say\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Ve maalesef say\u0131lar bu \u00e7arp\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcllendiriyor.<\/p>\n

G\u00dc\u00c7, PARA U\u011eRUNA \u00c7OCUKLAR \u0130\u00c7ER\u0130\u011eE D\u00d6N\u00dc\u015eT\u00dcR\u00dcL\u00dcYOR<\/h3>\n

Bireysel ahlaks\u0131zlar art\u0131yor do\u011fru. Ancak mesele bunun \u00e7ok \u00f6tesinde. Daha derin bir yap\u0131 s\u00f6z konusu: Yoksulluk, ataerkil kontrol, algoritmik \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme ve yasalardaki bo\u015fluklar. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu dinamikler birle\u015fti\u011finde, \u00e7ocuk ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n para, g\u00fc\u00e7 ya da g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fck u\u011fruna t\u00fcketti\u011fi bir \u2018i\u00e7erik\u2019 haline geliyor.<\/p>\n

Hatay\u2019daki baba bug\u00fcn g\u00f6zalt\u0131nda. \u00c7ocuk devlet korumas\u0131nda. Bu do\u011fru bir ad\u0131m. Ama bu tekil olay\u0131n \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7mezsek yar\u0131n ba\u015fka bir evde, ba\u015fka bir ekranda, ba\u015fka bir \u00e7ocukla ayn\u0131 tabloyu g\u00f6rmeyece\u011fimizin garantisi yok.<\/p>\n

Son Soru<\/h3>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc as\u0131l mesele toplumun norm erozyonu. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 fakirli\u011fin \u00e7aresizli\u011fi ile a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 zenginli\u011fin \u015fatafat\u0131 ayn\u0131 sonuca \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor: Ortak de\u011ferlerden kopu\u015f. Bu kopu\u015fun g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ise ekranlarda e\u011flence ya da ibret niyetine servis ediliyor.<\/p>\n

Baba \u201cnormal bu\u201d dedi\u011finde asl\u0131nda sadece kendi dibe d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fil hepimizin h\u0131zla i\u00e7ine s\u00fcr\u00fcklendi\u011fi bu erozyonu dile getiriyordu.<\/p>\n

Ve geriye tek bir soru kal\u0131yor: Biz neyi normalle\u015ftirdik?<\/p>\n

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Hatay\u2019da bir baban\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 TikTok\u2019ta oynat\u0131p \u201cnormal bu\u201d diyerek savunmas\u0131 toplumsal de\u011ferlerdeki norm erozyonunun \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir \u00f6rne\u011fi. Yoksulluk, ataerkillik, algoritmalar ve yasal bo\u015fluklar birle\u015fince \u00e7ocuk ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcketti\u011fi \u201ci\u00e7erik\u201de d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. As\u0131l soru h\u00e2l\u00e2 ortada: Biz neyi normalle\u015ftirdik?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":907,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[284,1],"tags":[334,333,279,336,337,338,335,280,332],"class_list":["post-1356","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gazete-yazilari","category-manset","tag-ahlaksizlik","tag-baba","tag-baris-erdogan","tag-canli-yayin","tag-fakirlik","tag-hatayda-tiktok-skandali","tag-normlar","tag-prof-dr-baris-erdogan","tag-tiktok"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1356","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/907"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1356"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1356\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1358,"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1356\/revisions\/1358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1356"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1356"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bariserdogan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1356"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}